No Risk No Reward

I am not a risk taker.  Not one bit.  People who watch me quilt laugh at my obsessiveness with plotting it out before I start.  Sometimes this is helpful, but it also means that I have quilts that I’ve envisioned, have the fabric, have the sketch and haven’t started on for over a year.

And just now I was reading Daisy Jane and stumbled upon this phrase, “No risk, no reward,” in this post.

I’m a great big scaredycat.  I’m scared of wasting fabric.  I want it to be good.  I want it to be perfect.  I know I shouldn’t but I do.  The problem, I can’t get better without doing it.  Without putting in those 10,000 hours (or was it 20,000?).  Without “wasting” a little fabric.

The same goes for my clothes sewing.  I haven’t stitched a piece since my Sorbetto muslin fail.  A muslin stopped me.  Why didn’t I make a second one?  I don’t know.  Wait, that wasn’t the last clothing thing I sewed.  The last clothing I made was this cute skirt, I love this skirt.  It was put together out of leftovers from another long plotted skirt, and unfinished skirt.  Why are my failures more prominent in my memories than my successes?

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February 7, 2012. Tags: . Problems, Sewing, Thoughts.

3 Comments

  1. Vivian replied:

    My goodness! What a wake up call for me; I need to practice my knitting. I find the same excuses. Perfectionism is my enemy.

  2. Megan replied:

    There’s an awesome Ira Glass quote on my wall in facebook. I’ll probably add it to a blog post soon. Seriously, it’s EXACTLY what you’re talking about here.

  3. Emily replied:

    But isn’t that the way it is for almost everything? It’s so easy to recall failures than successes. In my business of tech support/customer service, we say that it takes 12 good interactions to make up for 1 bad one. Maybe in sewing it takes more!

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